Women have no problem baring their heart. Girlfriends, colleagues, sister, hairdresser; anyone's good. At least, that's what the guys think. But whose door do the dudes knock on, when love hurts? Anjana Vaswani barged into access-denied territory to find out

Over a hundred years ago, Henry Youngman, a Major League baseball player for the Pittsburg Alleghenys, presented a solution to all long-term relationship problems. He said, 'People ask us the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week - a little candlelight, dinner, soft music and dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays.'