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A black lip to match your hate
Updated On: 11 October, 2026 07:19 AM IST | Mumbai | Akshita Maheshwari
The murder of Mad Sandhu, a gay content creator from Amritsar, goes to show that the more unapologetic you are about your queerness, the bigger the target on your back. The LGBTQIA+ community tells us about the fear they face every day just to be themselves, whether it’s out in the world or online

(Right) Drag artiste Zeesh says that social media used to be a safe space for members of the LGBTQIA+ community, but now it brings them unwanted attention. Pic/Satej Shinde
What makes a queer person safe? Is it support from friends and family? Is it financial security? Is it fame? Madhusudan Sandhu, better known as Mad Sandhu to his over two lakh Instagram followers, had all those things. And yet, he was shot dead by two men on a bike in Amritsar last week. Soon after, a post on gangster Goldy Dhillon’s Facebook claimed responsibility. What was Sandhu’s crime? He had “spoilt” Punjab, just by being himself, by being gay. Dhillon’s post quickly disappeared thereafter.
The LGBTQIA+ community in India is no stranger to violence. “Our mere existence makes people feel threatened. Being ‘out and proud’ has its own pros and cons,” says Yash, a Delhi-based queer rights advocate. “Being yourself is a basic human need. At the same time, for someone like me, it means risking death.”
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