Dr love with Mid-day: I like someone I argue with a lot!

This is a strange predicament for me to be in, but I appear to have fallen for someone I just don’t get along with. When we are together, all we do is argue but, when he isn’t around, I think about him all the time. This has been going on for a couple of months now. I don’t know how he feels, or if he has any interest in me at all, but this has been bothering me, and I don’t know if I should act upon it or dismiss it as foolishness. Maybe it’s just the idea of someone arguing with me that makes me confuse my feelings. What should I do? I like the idea of being friends, too, but I just want to know how he feels about me.
You should keep talking with this person and allow yourself time and space to understand where your feelings are coming from. It’s sometimes easy to confuse interest in someone with romantic sentiments, but there may come a point where one of you has an idea of where this is going, or an understanding of the nature of this friendship. If you are still confused after a while, ask him out for coffee and talk about what you’re thinking. At the very least, he will have an opportunity to be direct about what he thinks this is too. Don’t overthink it or jump to any conclusions yet. Keep those discussions going and you will have a clearer picture. Try being patient until that happens.

I don’t think I love my boyfriend anymore and the thought is only getting stronger with each day. Everything he says annoys me and I am starting to question everything about our relationship. Should I break up with him?
If you can articulate where this antagonism is coming from, it will help you make a decision. If you can’t, and being with him isn’t bringing you joy, you should tell him about it because you owe him as well as yourself that honesty.