The first time, love is judged by the butterflies alone. But the second time, people have much greater clarity about what they want and need; previously married singles rarely rely on chemistry alone when choosing a partner. The question becomes a little more complex than a simple, "Do I love this person?" These divorced singles seek more insight: "Can I build a life with this person without losing myself?"

According to the latest survey by Indian matchmaking app Rebounce, this one shift changes the entire way divorced singles match. It shows that 9,859 divorced singles shared that they look beyond the surface-level passion and grand promises: they focus on the small, almost invisible qualities that reveal more about what life would look like with a certain someone.