Feel drawn to my girlfriend’s friend

I am a 24-year-old guy and have been dating a girl for around seven months. We have known each other since college and have a group of common friends. Things are going well in our relationship but, for the past few weeks, I have begun to have feelings for her new friend. This is someone she works with, and I have met her a few times. Whenever I chat with her, I get the feeling that she understands me more than my girlfriend does. There is a strong connection between us, and she doesn’t say anything, but I can sense that she feels it too. We have a lot in common, and I find myself thinking about her a lot more than I think about my girlfriend. Should I end this relationship and ask her out?
If you aren’t thinking about your girlfriend much, it’s obvious that this relationship isn’t as strong or stable as you might think it is. It’s also unfair to your girlfriend who is presumably not struggling with doubts about her feelings for you. It may make sense to stop thinking about her friend for a while and try figuring out where things stand between you and your girlfriend first. What do you believe is missing in your relationship and do you feel as if it can’t be resolved? If she isn’t the kind of person you want to be with, you should be honest with yourself as well as with her before speaking to her friend about this. Also keep in mind the fact that everything you believe about her friend’s feelings for you are purely speculative at this point.

How do I get someone to believe in me again after betraying their trust?
Time makes a difference, along with making sure your actions consistently back your words. Show them that you mean what you say. Trust takes time to build, and then rebuild, so be patient and acknowledge that the other person is dealing with emotions that you may not understand.