Dr. Sundeep Kochar
Celebrity astrologer Dr. Sundeep Kochar, known for his global clientele that includes film stars, cricketers, industrialists, and politicians, believes that when it comes to relationships, the stars may guide- but it's the soul that must act.
In an exclusive conversation with Mid-Day, the life coach and spiritual mentor unpacks one of his most viral thoughts: "The biggest mistake in relationships isn't the mistakes we make, but the chances we don't take."
Sitting in his Mumbai office surrounded by planets carved in brass and sacred geometry, Dr. Kochar smiles as he opens the conversation with an insight that mirrors his reel that garnered thousands of likes: "We often use astrology as an excuse for inaction," he says. "People tell me, âIs this the right time to express my feelings?' or âWill this relationship survive Saturn's retrograde?' But sometimes, the answer is much simpler: what is your heart telling you?"
His belief is rooted in his decades of practice, over 2,700 episodes of his hit show Kismat Ke Sitare, international recognition, and a daily stream of DMs from people across continents. But the message remains: astrology is a tool for awareness, not a replacement for courage.
Dr. Kochar's astrological consultations often unveil a recurring theme: fear. "Fear of rejection. Fear of heartbreak. Fear that the stars will blame us later," he chuckles, "But what we don't realise is, not choosing is also a choice- and a karmic one."
He references Venus- the planet of love and beauty- as the emotional heartbeat in one's chart. "If Venus is weak or combust, you may feel insecure in love. You may over-give or completely shut down. But that doesn't mean you avoid love altogether. It means you understand your emotional rhythm and then act with awareness."
When asked about what taking a "chance" in love looks like astrologically, Dr. Kochar points to the 5th and 7th houses. "The 5th house is a romantic expression- flirting, joy, attraction. The 7th is about long-term commitment. Many times, I've seen strong 5th house energy but hesitation to step into the 7th because people fear being vulnerable beyond the honeymoon phase."
So, how do the stars encourage bravery? "Jupiter transits, especially over the Moon or Venus, are wonderful times to open your heart. Similarly, when Saturn leaves your 7th house, a new clarity arises-it's the universe saying, âNow you've learned. Start fresh.'"
Astrology is Not an Excuse-It's a Mirror
Dr. Kochar is quick to correct the misconception that astrology dictates every move. "I always say, astrology doesn't predict- it reflects. You still have to choose. The stars don't force your hand. They offer direction, not a guarantee."
His recent reel- where he says "The biggest mistake isn't the one you made, but the one you didn't commit out of fear"- touched thousands. He explains, "People felt seen. Because so many of us stay in limbo, waiting for green lights from the cosmos. But love is not passive. It's a sacred action."
Whether you're stuck in a situationship or reconsidering a 20-year marriage, Dr. Kochar emphasizes the importance of intentional action. "If you're single and afraid to put yourself out there, check where your Moon is- how safe do you feel emotionally? If you're in a long-term bond and stagnating, maybe it's time to read your partner's chart too, not just yours."
He recalls a consultation with a couple on the verge of divorce. "I told them- your Mars is clashing now, yes. But your Venus return is around the corner. If you can just hold space for each other's growth, you'll fall in love again. They did."
Meditation: The Missing Link in Relationships
While known for his astrological acumen, Dr. Kochar is also a strong advocate of meditation. "You can chant mantras and light diyas, but if your mind isn't still, your decisions won't be either." Meditation, he says, helps us respond- not react- in relationships.
He adds, "Meditation aligns you to your inner planetary system. You become the Sun-radiating love from within, rather than expecting it only from others."
Dr. Kochar continues to guide millions through his digital platforms. You can explore his predictions, insights, and daily reels on Instagram and YouTube. For consultations, retreats, and upcoming media appearances, visit his official website. You can also connect professionally via his Link.
Before signing off, Dr. Kochar leaves us with a parting note:
"A good astrologer doesn't just tell you what's coming- they awaken your inner wisdom to meet it."
So, the next time you're hesitating to say "I love you," move cities for love, or walk away from something safe but stagnant- remember, the stars are watching. But they're also waiting... for you to act.
