24 April,2026 07:36 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondent
Nysa Devgn with Kajol
Kajol and Ajay Devgn's daughter, Nysa Devgan, has often caught the public eye. Recently, Kajol opened up about how she struggled with parenting her Gen Z daughter. The actress admitted that it was difficult and that they fought a lot for almost 3 years.
During her appearance on Lilly Singh's podcast, Kajol was seen discussing Gen Z parenting hacks. While talking to the host, Kajol opened up about her relationship with Nysa, admitting that it was a relationship they had to work on. "I have a lot of talks with her, I talk to her through things. It's a relationship that we had to build. Hormones hit, and she was 12. And we were all over the place. We were fighting, and we were both irrational at times. We were both illogical at times. Being the adult, I stood up, and I said, I should be a little more rational. I decided that I am not going to fight with her that much; I'm going to try to talk to her. As much as I can talk at her till she starts listening to me. And work with her," Kajol revealed.
The actress further admitted that there were three years where she struggled while parenting, revealing what her biggest learning was from that time. "We both struggled for nearly three years. Both of us were like, I don't want to listen to you, I don't want to talk to you. But eventually it became conversations, long conversations. Then I realised that it was more about just me sitting down and listening to her. It was not about talking so much. It was just about giving her space to talk herself and to be heard. That made the biggest difference. That was my biggest learning," she added.
Nysa recently turned 23 and is in a much better place with her mother now. On the occasion of her birthday earlier this week, Kajol posted pictures of them together, writing, "I am so blessed .. she was born and the world changed.. I thank God every day for You, my darling .. u are perfect and all mine always. Happy happy birthday to u and me." (sic) Besides, the actor has often said in interviews that her daughter is not interested in pursuing acting.