'What is the best time to tell a woman I love her?'

What's the best time to tell a woman that you're in love with her? I have been dating someone for two months now, but can't think of a perfect moment to say this. I know it sounds cheesy, but I want it to be perfect so she will remember this. I don't want to text her or send her a WhatsApp message because I don't think that's cool at all. I think she loves me too, and is probably waiting for me to say something about it. Do you have any suggestions?

I suggest you stop overthinking this and avoid watching too many a soppy romantic comedies. If you love someone, say it. Don't worry about the moment, because it's how you show your love that matters, not when you say it. She won't remember when you said it, but will probably remember all the times you did something to show it. Also, life is short and then we all die, so stop waiting for something magical to pop out of a hat. Go and tell her how you feel at once.

I want to stop being negative about everyone I date. I haven't been able to go steady with anyone in years because I always find some fault with them. I recognise this as a problem, but don't know what to do about it. I really would like to be with someone for a while, instead of just a week or so, and I know I'm not perfect either. What can I do about this? Should I speak to a counsellor?
Recognising the problem is a great step towards fixing it. I suppose you really need to spend some time trying to figure out why you judge people the way you obviously do. We are all flawed. When two people get into a relationship, they accept each other despite their flaws, which is something you haven't been to accept until now. If speaking to a counsellor helps you get over what sounds like narcissism, maybe you should.