'I don't have a boyfriend'

This makes me feel inadequate. I don't know where the problem is because I have several friends with whom I socialise a lot. How do I hook up with a guy?
- Tanvi

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Tanvi,
There is no need to be in a rush to have a guy in your life. You are 20 and still have time to meet that someone special. Before you get a boyfriend, you'll have to meet a guy who you feel is special. You can try and get into a relationship with a guy you already know or meet some new guy. Meanwhile enjoy life as a single person. Love happens, you can't go looking for it.u00a0

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