'I can't get her out of my head'

u00a0I have expressed my feelings for her, but she rejected me outright. It has been a long time, but I am still in love with her. I really want to be with her even though she has found someone else. I can't get her out of my head. She tells me I am just a friend for her. What do I do?
- Vidyut

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Vidyut,
She has told you clearly that she is not interested in you, so the faster you get packing the better for you. Remember it is only you in this relationship. It is a one-sided hopeless affair. You are just wasting your time as she has already found someone else. Get cracking and get on with your life. This girl just does not care for you so don't waste any time on her. I am sure you will find someone else... someone who will love you too.

Diana will solve it!
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