'I don't have a love life'

They have a lot of female friends with whom they spend the weekends. Some even have steady girlfriends. The situation is getting difficult with every passing day because deep down I wish I had female friends and perhaps a girlfriend. My love life is really sad.
- Mohit

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Mohit,
You can't go shopping for a girlfriend. You get attracted, you get to know the person and a bond develops. So dude you can't find someone ASAP. Just because your pals have one, does not mean that you need one. Right now it is better that you concentrate on your studies. I am sure you will find a soulmate sooner or later. You are only 20 and have all the time for romance. Next time your pals chide you, just tell them that there is someone who you prefer keeping as a secret.

Diana will solve it!
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