01 September,2010 08:38 AM IST | | Rocky Thongam
HOW many of you guys have gotten over the Mrs Robinsons? The sweet-smelling voluptuous woman
who was your teacher, next-door-neighbour or the maid? Remember how that amorous teenage heart of yours skipped a beat when she affectionately pecked your red cheeks?
Or how your loins warmed up when you stole a glimpse of her pallu-covered bosom? The truth is, none of us have gotten over her. Admit it, no matter how hard we try; the notion of those stolen moments of sexual tryst with a married woman makes us go bonkers.
Some men say the inclination springs from their animal instinct of responding to the intrasexual selection. Men simply love competing with others for a prize. They have an inbuilt instinct that urges them to compete for something not attained yet. "But that is a bag of bullcrap in my case," says 24-year-old architect Sumit Kainthola. "Being in bed with a married women for me is about her conquering me rather than the other way around," he adds.
Please you dry
The lonely married woman who agrees to jump in bed with you takes care of you needs. If age is catching up with her or she is tired of staying under the same roof with a husband who pays more attention to stock figures, she will play out all your fantasies.
She'll happily slip into that leather costume your girlfriend refused to wear, cuff herself and purr like a kitten until you start spanking her.
"Sex is all about pleasing your partner. And a woman who is willing to gratify you has extreme control over you, because you know the rewards are mammoth sized if you are a good boy," admits 29-year-old computer analyst Ankit Saluja.
Mission submission
Even the newly wedded woman would love to dominate. You are not her husband so she'll kick you out once she is done with you. She won't tolerate the familiar wet towel on the bed or your socks on the table. And why should she? It is her form of rebellion and you are purely dispensable.
"I have never cheated on my girlfriend but the idea of a woman is who is a submissive housewife at home but
dominant with me (in bed) totally turns me on," says 23-year-old student Thomas Zou.
For thousands of years, men have lived under the illusion that they control things. Of course the enlightened ones know its women. And for some its the alluring breedu00a0-- married womenu00a0-- who rule.