It's all in your hands

When it comes to getting as close as it gets, your hands have it in them to do much more than you ever thought they ever could. We help you get armed

So, you've made love, but how many times have you hand-made it? The palms, fingers, nails and hind arms have a strange synergy at work all the time, and ever more when it comes to passion play. Right from the first touch to cupping your partner's face and heading to the hotspots hesitantly, they do everything that's required to get things going. We help you get better at haath ki safai.

Hold on

You might be an amazing kisser, but great smooching skills, devoid of the right touches, won't do much to take things to the next level. If your hands aren't moving, her hormones aren't. Hold her tight, pull her close, stroke her hair gently with your index finger, and only then must you move to a lip lock. Be careful about how much pressure you apply while at the touch-me-touch-me-not game. Keep it minimal when initiating the flow with girls, and be firm with the guys. When wildness takes over, let spontaneity of hand-play lead the way.

Where to dare

There're many things that you can do to make sure he or she gets those irresistible vibes. The guy can gently caress her neck and let the lips take over thereafter, curve his palms around her waist, and squeeze with some mischief. Stroking the back and neck, mouth and hand in sync, is also a turn on for most of the fairer species. If you didn't know, 'touchability' makes women more confident.

Men, on the other hand, generally like movement to be restricted to particular zones like the ears, hair, back and down there. And, unlike women, asking your way around isn't embarrassing.

Hands up, down, left, right

When you want to manhandle them right, don't keep the handsu00a0 at one spot for very long. Fidgeting isn't always a bad thing, no matter what grandma said. Move around, explore. Also, don't stick to one motion, alternate it between random patterns, encircling, strengthening and loosening the grip. Variety always works.

Grip trip

Men must realise that their rough skin has can scratch the lady's skin, so know just where to go easy on that grip when your girl's getting up, close and personal. Women, on the other hand, shouldn't worry about hurting the male-kind with their silky smooth skin and glazed nails.

See the signs?

The hands often lead you where nothing else does into your partner's mind. You can gauge his/her desperation to devour you by the intensity of the touch. A tight hug means 'gimme more'. Digging nails into the back, 'now, now, now', and a stroke through your hair, 'yes, I hope it happens soon, we're just getting started'. Look out for impatience in hand movements; that tells all.u00a0

Keep it clean

Obviously. Your hands are all over the place when you're with your lover, so keep them squeaky clean before getting into bed. Ladies, don't forget the manicures, and guys, please cut those claws. Hygiene is half the game won.