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Dear Diana,
We've been engaged for about two years now but have barely communicated twice in the last six months.
She is studying and living at a hostel in Gujarat while I'm working at a job in Mumbai. Whenever I call her and try to make longer conversation and a more frequent affair, she seems uninterested and hesitant.
I don't get it. Is she plain shy or simply doesn't like me? I know for a fact, by the way, that she's a chatterbox around friends and family.
Anshu Singh
Dear Anshu,
It could be that she's of a conservative bent and you just haven't realised it. Go to Gujarat for a few days and make the effort to meet her and strike up more than a few conversations with her.
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The only reason I see for her being shy around you and a chatterbox with friends and family is because of her familiarity with them and not so much with you.
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Why the long engagement, though? Why haven't the two of you wed, yet? I agree that you are making the effort to get to know her better, but trust me, you can't do a very good job over the phone, which is no substitute for an actual interaction.u00a0
Is masturbation harmful to health?
Dear Diana,
I am 31 years old. I live in Kuwait. I can't stand sex and the climate here is too hot, anyway. Though I must admit that I am fond of masturbation. Is it harmful to health? Please advise.
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
I guess given that you clean yourself up thoroughly after you're done, I don't see any reason why masturbation should be harmful to health. It's quick and a relatively safe form of sexual release.
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Besides, if offers you freedom from any performance anxiety. Though, it is not a permanent alternative to sex.
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