Do you think its possible to change your future? My parents went to a fortune teller recently, and they were told that I'm going to get pregnant soon
Dear Diana,
Do you think its possible to change your future? My parents went to a fortune teller recently, and they were told that I'm going to get pregnant soon. The thing is, I'm only 17.
Have just started college and I don't even have a boyfriend. This fortune teller said that I begin to text this boy and then end up doing something stupid.
It's easy enough to say just don't go near boys or use protection (which I would if the question of sex ever arose), but if you were told you would die in a car crash, would you never go in a car again?
Name withheld
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Dear Friend,
Absolutely not. It's up to you whether to believe this at all. I wouldn't base any of my life on what a fortune teller foretells. You are in control of your future and it is based on the choices that you make now.
The closest thing that I believe to this, is that you have already made your choices and you will realise why as life goes on. If you are honestly worried then go on birth control but other then that I wouldn't change anything else other than this.
In due course, you will meet new people who will expand the way you see the world. You will know true love, and probably loss. You will learn things you have never thought of. The person you will be in 10 years will hardly recognise the person you are now.
Call him back?
Dear Diana,
I need help! The guy I was having an affair with for the past three years, called me last night. We haven't spoken in almost eight months. I don't know if I should call him back! What to do?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
An affair for three years, no contact for the last eight months... what kind of advice were you expecting? Don't even bother. He's just calling you up because he is out of options and knows you still have a soft corner for him.
Surrender to a sexless marriage?
Dear Diana,
My husband and I have only been married three months, and already everything has changed. He has completely lost any interest in sex.
I am trying everything I can think of. We are young, I am 23 and he is 25. We get into arguments everyday, over the smallest things, but it is stemming from this frustration on my part. I am so tired of trying everyday to "seduce" him. Should I just accept a sexless marriage or is it time to call it quits?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
Well its obvious that you are not happy and for a young newly married couple, it doesn't sound right at all. Marriage is about working it out, come what may. Sit him down and explain that this is serious and if you both can't work it out then there's no hope for the marriage.
A healthy relationship needs a balance of physical and emotional love. If he won't compromise or is not willing to sort things out then it may be worth thinking about a future without him.
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