You, me and porn the equation has poisoned many affairs. We tell you how this fixation can make you cross the line and wreak havoc in your sex life
You, me and porn the equation has poisoned many affairs. We tell you how this fixation can make you cross the line and wreak havoc in your sex life
Let's not get into defining the deed; we all know it more than we should. Adult entertainment, which often doubles up as a tutor of intimacy, may lead to betrayal and infidelity if used carelessly.
Like an excess of anything causes harm, porn-gazing, too, can be far more hazardous than you thought. We delve deep into the desire douser, and show you how it works against your sacred bond.
Too much, too less
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When not playing catalyst, pornography poses as a potent weapon to ruin the chemistry between you and your partner by transforming lovemaking into an 'act', minus the emotions.
Porn viewing also sparks fantasies that are not easy to be practised in real life, like threesomes, prop sex and repeated orgasm.
Reality is often far from what appears on the reel, but voyeur viewers are ready to push all boundaries, and in turn, disappoint their partner.
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Hand in hand
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They say, it's ideal to be self-sufficient, but when you're talking about sex, too much of self-satisfaction is a weapon of mass destruction.
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Eyes on nudity mall the time may encourage your partner to chuck your charm, and instead, opt for instant gratification independently.
Addiction to porn promotes additional masturbation, which then disables the person from differentiating real passion from false pleasure.
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Where is the fun?
The most obvious aftermath of porn addiction is that it leads to lack of sex in a relationship.
This happens when a man withdraws himself from the real world and moves to visual fantasies that don't belong to his world. The bigger the busts you're ogling at, the more the chances of your marriage going bust.
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If a woman discovers that her husband is indulging in pornography, she may undergo a range of emotional changes, from indifference, curiosity, rage, desperation and fear.
Your spouse may even get tempted to stray because of your dead desire for the 'real' thing.
On the other hand, when your partner views porn, you may feel disrespected, offended, and incapable of fulfilling his or her sexual needs.
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Uncomfortable hai
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A porn-brained person pushes his/her partner into doing things (s)he's not very comfortable with.
One of the partners may ask the other to enact the erotic scenes he or she has seen in a film. If the other is game, great. Otherwise, get ready for trouble.
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Womanly woes
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Porn objectifies women. It eliminates any need to connect with a woman emotionally, or intellectually.
In most cases, it's all about obscenity, beastly instincts and unabashed wham-bamming.
Sleaze kills the sensuality in lovemaking and strangles the foreplay, which is in no way a positive trait.
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