I feel like she is always testing me

I am a 33-year old guy and have been in a relationship with a 27-year old woman for a year. We get along well and have a great time whenever we are together, but I always get the feeling she is evaluating me. It feels as if I am participating in a test, where she is trying to figure out if I am someone she really wants to be with. I know she loves me, but I suspect that she is looking for a lifelong commitment and isn’t ready to say this. Maybe she is afraid that it may frighten me, but I would appreciate it if she just said what was on her mind so I would know if our expectations are the same. I want to get married, too, but don’t know if I am financially secure to make that decision. Should I lay my cards on the table and tell her I’m not looking for something serious?
If the two of you have been together for a year, it’s time you had that conversation about the future. This wouldn’t be necessary if you felt secure in this relationship, but it’s possible that you are both expecting different things based on what you describe. If she is afraid to come out and say what’s on her mind, it may make sense for you to be honest about your situation and what you foresee for the near future. This isn’t to say your relationship will fail, because at this point your comments are purely speculative. It’s always great to be as clear about what you want though, and the sooner the better, because it can save you both a lot of time and heartache.

Someone I really like is dating a guy who is very wrong for her. Everyone knows this except her, and it breaks my heart. Should I send her an anonymous message?
You can send her any message you like, but it is her prerogative as an adult to be with anyone she chooses.