Our age difference is worrying him...
Updated On: 09 September, 2023 08:06 AM IST | Mumbai | Dr Love
Assuming he has your number, too, why not wait until he reaches out? If this was a genuine error, you can sort it all when he reaches out. If he doesn’t call or message, write it off as a connection that wasn’t meant to be

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My partner is almost 15 years older than I am. This has not been a problem and we enjoy the age difference because we have interesting perspectives on things, but he has begun to worry that this may become an issue as he gets older. He is currently 44 years old and feels as if his opinions and attitudes will soon be at complete odds with mine. I don’t see any friction yet so I don’t know why he feels this way, but I am trying to reassure him that everything can be handled if we are aware of what we want and how we care about each other. He understands and accepts this, but that worry isn’t going away, and it is making me question everything about this relationship too. Should we end it while we still care for each other, to prevent any bad blood in the future?


