Dear Diana,
I have been married for two years. Things are going fine and my husband is loving and caring, but I have developed feelings for another guy. I don’t know why, but I can’t get this man out of my head. He is single. I met him at my husband’s friend’s birthday party of one of my hubby’s friends. As he and I were not drinking, we were sitting away from the rest. We got talking about common friends, our lives and exchanged numbers. I was not all surprised when he sent me a SMS three days later. He said he needed to tell me something. I was waiting for him to SMS or call. We started talking and spoke for three hours at a stretch. I really don’t understand what is happening to me. I have been meeting him on the sly. I am aware that I am wrecking my marriage and do not know what my husband will say when he finds out. I am getting frustrated. I have tried to get rid of these feelings, but I can’t. I have fallen in love with him.
— Raima

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Illustrations/Uday Mohite

Dear Raima,
This guy is your husband’s friend’s pal. So when the concerned parties find out, it will be hell. Get ready to face the heat and the consequences. This man is single, but you are not. Remember, you are indulging in an extramarital affair. You may have been drawn towards him due to his charm and personality, but do you want to part ways from your husband for this man? Are you ready to tell your husband about your affair? You will have to choose between the two men. Your hubby has no clue, so before he finds out what is going on behind his back, you need to tell him and accordingly decide your future course of action.