'I'm just wasting my time on a futile relationship'
Dear Diana, My boyfriend and I were about to call it quits, but we made up by talking things out.
Though things are okay and we have been together for six years, I feel I am just wasting my time in a relationship that is not going anywhere. I have to give credit to my boyfriend who has been reasonable throughout, but I’m starting to feel that we are not meant for each other.
It looks like your relationship has reached a rough patch or you feel it is time to go your separate ways. Or perhaps you are simply bored of him. Whatever the reason, alarm bells are ringing and you should not turn a blind eye to it. What is stopping you from taking the relationship to the next level? Does your guy have a commitment phobia? If random thoughts of being in a futile relationship are bothering you, you need to sit and talk out things. More importantly you need to decide and take a stand.
Diana will solve it!
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