I am 34 years old and am a married man
Dear Diana,
I am 34 years old and am a married man.u00a0The problem is, for a past year, my wife is having an affair with some other guy. I come to know and she wants divorce with me and she wants to take my three-year- old daughter (whom I love more then my own life) she is saying she gone take the child any how, but I want my daughter to stay back with me, How would I claim to her to get my child back legally?
My wife wants to marry that other guy and I am afraid he might misbehave with my daughter. Shall I divorce my wife?u00a0u00a0u00a0u00a0u00a0u00a0u00a0u00a0u00a0u00a0u00a0
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Dear Friend,
If she wants a divorce, there will come a time when you will have to make a decision whether you want to let go or not. If your wife and her love decide to fight you tooth and nail in a custody battle for your daughter, you willu00a0 have a long, arduous journey ahead.
Appoint a good lawyer to fight your case and stake your claim for custody. Ideally, it would be best that a kid doesn't grow up in a broken home, but when it cannot be helped, you will have to reconsider your options and take a call on further course of action. If you do sign the divorce papers, make sure that you do so only on the condition that you get custody of your daughter.
My neighbour likes to put on a show
Dear Diana,
There's this one boy a neighbour I know nothing about. Whenever I am on my terrace, he will come and stand near the window stark naked. I really don't know why he does that. Could you tell me why he does that? Can I ask him why he does that?
Agnes
Dear Agnes,
He's an exhibitionist. But I guess it really depends on whether you're offended by his behaviour or not. Don't go about asking a stranger about his strange behaviour. Ignore him.
Without an audience, he will cease this absurd behaviour. Or, better still, get your dad or an elder brother to accompany you to the terrace. Believe me, it will stop within no time at all!
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