'The girl I loved is back in my life'
Dear Diana, I was in love with a girl from my college but I never mustered enough courage to tell her about my feelings for her.
We went our ways, but recently I bumped into her again during a college reunion. She is engaged to someone of her family’s choice. We got talking and for the past three months we’ve been going for movies, eating out and meeting almost every day. She has dropped enough hints that she wants to break up with her boyfriend. Should I make my move?
Yes, of course. Destiny has brought you together again. You liked her and wanted her to be your girl, so here is your chance. At the same time, tread cautiously as she is engaged. The fact that she is spending time with you is a clear indication that she is interested in you. For her, however, breaking off may not be easy as her fiance is of her family’s choice. As a first step, she has to be clear in her mind. Once she is sure, she needs to broach it with her family. Calling off the engagement will upset her folk, so you will have to deal with the situation with utmost care. Also, you need to make it clear that you are not the cause of it, you bumped into her as fate ordained and it is her call to be with you.
Diana will solve it!
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