'She doesn't like talking to me anymore'

29 August,2016 06:00 AM IST |   |  Dr. Love

My girlfriend and I have been together for a year. We used to have a great time initially, but over the past four months, she doesn't like speaking with me for more than 20 minutes


My girlfriend and I have been together for a year. We used to have a great time initially, but over the past four months, she doesn't like speaking with me for more than 20 minutes. She is angry with me often but doesn't say why. She doesn't want to listen to me and I can't understand what the problem is. What should I do? I don't want to leave her because I love her a lot.
If your girlfriend doesn't want to communicate with you, there really isn't much you can do except be patient and wait until she is ready. She needs to know that you want her in your life, and that you are willing to be patient until she is ready to tell you what she is upset about. You should also consider the possibility that you may have changed too, making it harder for her to be open with you. Have you thought about that? Communication is a two-way street, after all.



I have fallen in love with a girl over the past 3 months. I haven't told her this yet because she doesn't know me. I don't have the guts to tell her, even though I'm sure she likes me too. How should I strike up a conversation?
She doesn't know you, but you believe she likes you? I'm not sure how you have arrived at that conclusion, to be honest. Did someone you both know tell you this? Do you have common friends? If you do, that may help you set up an introduction and, possibly, a few conversations before you are on safer ground about this supposed mutual attraction. If you have no mutual friends, the best way to strike up a conversation is to go up to her and introduce yourself, the old-fashioned way. I would avoid mentioning being in love for a while though, to prevent her from running in the opposite direction in a hurry.

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