'He wants to break up, but I don't want to lose him'

I have been in a relationship for a year. I have done everything that needs to be done in order to be with him, but he wants to end it. I can't handle it because I don't want to lose him. What can I do? - Sonu G

A relationship takes two people to work. If one person doesn't want to make it happen, it won't. You haven't said why he feels this way, or why you have chosen to go out of your way to make him happy, but you should try and examine where things went wrong.

I am 17 years old. For the past 2 and half years, I have had feelings for a girl who was a classmate in school. We were both very studious and good friends. After school, we chose different streams in different colleges. I thought I would forget about her, but this hasn't happened. I think of her daily. I didn't speak to her about this after school, because our education was more important. Now, I think I just want her to know how I feel. I sent her a text message 2 weeks ago asking if we could meet, but she said she couldn't. She lives close to my house, but can't meet unless our school friends plan a meeting together. How do I convince her to meet me? - V P

It's 2017, so I'm assuming you both have access to e-mail and social media. If she can't meet you in person, maybe you should just try and chat with her online whenever possible. This isn't to say you should start behaving like a stalker, but just interacting with her in some way online may give her a reason to try and get to know you better. If she can't meet you now, there is always a possibility of her being able to at some point in the future. Your feelings for her won't matter unless she feels the same way, though, so do try and be prepared for that eventuality.