'Should I go out for coffee with my college crush?'

15 May,2017 07:58 AM IST |  Mumbai  |  Dr. Love

I was in love with a guy for two years while we were in college. He was dating someone else at the time though, so we didn't even consider going out. Recently, I ran into him at an office I was visiting and we began chatting



I was in love with a guy for two years while we were in college. He was dating someone else at the time though, so we didn't even consider going out. Recently, I ran into him at an office I was visiting and we began chatting. Turns out, he's been single for a while, and he asked me out. I don't know if this is a good idea though, because I am no longer the person I was in college. I don't even know if I like him anymore, and I don't want to lead him on. What should I do? My friends think I should just meet him, because they remember how madly in love with him I was at the time.
It's just coffee. If you don't like him, you are under no obligation to go out with him again. He hasn't even expressed any desire to date you, so I think you're being a little presumptuous here. If you think there is absolutely no reason for you to meet him at all, you are free to do that too. The fact that you are thinking about it though, makes me believe you are curious about meeting him. Why not go for it? You may be a different person and there might be no reason for anything to happen, but you simply won't know until you meet him, so what choice do you have?

What can I gift a girl who has everything? She's rich and finds most things I have given her in the past boring. I want to surprise her for a change and can't go with the usual stuff like jewellery, perfumes or clothes.
I know nothing about this girl, so I suggest you simply give her a bit of your time. Not all gifts ought to be measured by how much they cost. It's the thought behind why you do, or buy, something that ought to matter. Maybe you aren't thinking about it enough?

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