13 November,2017 07:36 AM IST | Mumbai | Dr Love
I have been brought up in a family that is extremely orthodox. When my sister and I were little, our father used to refer to himself as unlucky, saying he wished he had a son. He used to fight with my mother almost every night for stupid reasons
- Selvi J
We are, sadly for us, trained to accept our parents the way they are, overlook their faults and accept them no matter what, even if this causes us an enormous amount of damage. Your father is, on the basis of everything you have said, not the kind of man you ought to take any cues from. If he prefers sons over daughters, he is obviously not fit to be a parent. If he demeans you, it is a sign of his own insecurity, not a sign of any inferiority in your part. You are a strong woman capable of accomplishing more than any man your age aspires to, and you shouldn't allow anyone - even if this is a parent - tell you otherwise. There will come a time when you will no longer be compelled to live in a place of such negativity. Work towards that future and forget about the past.
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