31 March,2017 06:12 AM IST | | Dr Love
'I would like to study further but my parents want me to marry instead. What if my future husband forbids me from studying? Is there anything I can do to convince my parents?'
I would like to study further but my parents want me to marry instead. What if my future husband forbids me from studying? Is there anything I can do to convince my parents?
I am a 56-year-old and my family life is disturbing. My wife does not satisfy me in any way, which is why we have mutually agreed to consider a live-in relationship. What is the way to go about this? We have been married for 22 years but I am still unhappy. - Uddhav R
I'm not sure I understand your question. Are you saying you want to dissolve your marriage and get into a live-in relationship with your wife because that may be less stressful? Or, are you implying that you intend to dissolve the marriage and get into a live-in relationship with another woman? Either way, there is no 'process'. There are legal implications to dissolving a marriage and entering another relationship, but you haven't mentioned whether or not there is someone you want to get into a relationship with. I also find it strange that you blame your wife for not satisfying you when one can easily assume that you haven't satisfied her either. Have you both had a conversation about this? Have you considered speaking to a therapist or a sex counsellor? Is the satisfaction you crave more than just physical? 22 years is a long time to be with someone and not figure out how to arrive at a certain kind of happiness. I suggest you have an open discussion with your wife. At this point, you have nothing to lose by telling each other what you need.