In 2003, while I was in my 20s, I met a gorgeous guy who was in his 30s and recently divorced with two kids. I was smitten. I knew he was dangerous, but ended up losing my virginity to him. He ended it after four months
In 2003, while I was in my 20s, I met a gorgeous guy who was in his 30s and recently divorced with two kids. I was smitten. I knew he was dangerous, but ended up losing my virginity to him. He ended it after four months. I tried getting him back for years but discovered that he was already engaged to someone and had lied to me about it. I accepted my fate and decided to walk away. I was unbalanced and vulnerable, and met a much younger guy whom I confided in. This young guy contacted the older man and did something horrible, like ask him for money. I found out about this eventually and was hurt, because I used to help this guy out with money often. I felt sorry for him, but he took advantage of my generosity, and even hacked into my computer. I didn't date anyone else until 2009, when I decided I just needed sex, rather than a relationship, so I turned to this guy since I knew him already. He was thrilled and accepted, then offered to marry me. I refused. After sleeping with him, I was disgusted with myself and told him it was over. He was upset, stalked me, took personal photographs and blackmailed me. A few years later, I met another guy and got into a relationship with him, when the young guy tried contacting me again.
I blocked him, but recently feel as if I am being stalked again. I get anonymous calls at home at inappropriate hours. I have changed my mobile number and have even contacted the police, but they have done nothing. How do I find out if I am being stalked by this guy? How do I get rid of whoever is doing this? Am I being used as part of a game?
- Rasha D
This really does sound like a criminal matter, to be honest. I suggest you speak to a lawyer, because this doesn't sound like a safe person to deal with.
