'I enjoy female attention'

My marriage has been fixed by my parents, but a neighbour of mine has the hots for me. She openly flirts with me. In office, a colleague also likes me. I'm in a fix. Who do I choose?
- Yousuf

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Yousuf,
Looks like you consider yourself an Adonis. You are handsome and a true ladies man. If you are attracted to a neighbour and a colleague after you, why did you give your consent to the match fixed by your family? When it comes to commitment, you have to choose one. Attracting attention is fine but when it its' time to get married, you have to decide. You seem to be swayed by the attention you are getting. Stop playing around with the women in your life. Your head seems cluttered by the women who are flirting with you. Think of whom you would want to be your wife. Once you have taken a decision, tell the other that you are getting hitched and can no longer play along.

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