After divorcing his wife, he's ignoring me again!

After divorcing his wife, he's ignoring me again!

Dear Diana,
I've been in love with a guy for three years now. But because of some misunderstanding, he got married to another girl last year. He got engaged when I was not in town. He told me about it later on. Three months after his marriage, he came back to me, explaining that he had chosen the wrong partner and would file for divorce from his wife. Anyway, I accepted him. But now, he has started ignoring me again, and behaves like I don't matter to him at all. Should I continue the relationship withu00a0 him? Also, I doubt he is in a relationship with anyone else.

Riya

Dear Riya,
He had the nerve to get engaged when you weren't around. Then, he had the temerity to marry someone else, file for divorce because it wasn't working out, come back crying to you begging to take him back and then, saunter out, like you didn't even matter. And you're asking me, if you should continue this 'relationship'??? Have you lost it? You shouldn't have been waiting for him to 'return' in the first place. A guy who does that to you, doesn't deserve your love or sympathy. It doesn't matter that he's in a relationship with someone else or not, make sure he doesn't spoil your life by taking you for granted yet again.

Will a lip kiss give me AIDS?

Dear Diana,
I'm 16. I have a girlfriend and she wants me to kiss her on the lips. We kiss on the cheeks but she wants more. I'm a bit shy and so, she's taking the initiative. Will a kiss on the lips harm us or give us AIDS?

Name withheld

Dear Friend,
I don't think a peck on the lips will give you an STD, much less AIDS. At your age, it's advisable not to go any further than kissing or petting. It would be safe enough if you stop it at that.

I flunked...

Dear Diana,
I flunked my exams and I'm probably going to get kicked out of college. I think I could probably do well, if given a second chance... but it's my parents that I am worried about. How do I console them? They just won't listen to me. They might want me to give up.

DW

Dear Friend,
They'd only give you a second chance if your parents convinced them to. And that would only happen if your parents were convinced in you. Why did you flunk? Was it the first time this happened? You'd only be in a position to console them if it was something that was out of your control. Also, they'll listen to you, if this wasn't an important exam. Give them reason to believe in you and they will. Keep breaking their trust and they won't