He never asks about me or my family

Published: Oct 10, 2019, 05:19 IST | DR Love |

He doesn't care about my work, my personal life, my family or friends, and doesn't even ask me questions about them

Illustration/ Uday Mohite
Illustration/ Uday Mohite

Dr LoveI was introduced to someone a few months ago, and he asked me out. I agreed because he seemed like a nice guy. The weird thing is, whenever we have a conversation, it is always about him and what he is doing. He doesn't care about my work, my personal life, my family or friends, and doesn't even ask me questions about them. He only expects me to ask him about his family and career and plans. I was okay with this initially, because I thought he would express interest in my life eventually, but we have been dating for three months now and it hasn't happened. He wants me to consider a relationship with him, but I think he is just shallow. What should I do?

If he isn't interested in you, why should you even consider this possibility of a relationship? You should be with someone who wants to get to know you, as much as you want to get to know him. You think this man is shallow, so why waste time thinking about it? Life is too short. Move on and allow him to obsess over himself.

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up two months ago for very good reasons. We couldn't see eye to eye on anything and we were both miserable for a very long time. The problem is, I still can't seem to get over her. I know she is wrong for me, but I also want to get back with her even though I know this will be a huge mistake. How do I resolve this?

If you know it's a mistake, why aren't you giving yourself enough time to get over her? It's normal to want to get back, because this is someone you were close to once and the force of habit can be very strong. Time alone can solve your problem, so I suggest you stay away for her for a couple of months, give yourself some space, and then think about what you want to do.

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