I am a loner looking for a soulmate

Jun 19, 2012, 06:34 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I'm a loner and spend most of my time on the internet talking to strangers. I prefer to stay indoors, playing video games.

I barely go out and don’t have any close friends. People find me boring, so I don’t socialise. How do I find a guy who, too, like me prefers to stay indoors? I want my man to be like me who likes to stay indoors. Being a loner it is proving to be tough to find someone.
— Simran

Illustration/ Satish Acharya

Dear Simran,
You say you chat online, maybe you will find someone who shares your mindset. Otherwise to find a guy who loves to stay indoors you need to step out of the house. If both of you remain indoors, how will you two meet? By shutting yourself from the world you are making yourself aloof. Some sunshine would do you wonders, your body certainly needs Vitamin D. Only after meeting people, you can judge what kind they are and whether they are the outdoor or indoor types.

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