'I just can't get him out of my head'

Sep 22, 2013, 23:39 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, About five years ago, I was in a relationship with an office colleague. Suddenly he decided to stop talking to me.

I tried to speak to him but from his reaction it was apparent that he was no longer interested in me. We stopped talking and later he changed his job. Five years down the line, I’m still struggling to forget him. I still feel like calling him but I doubt whether he has the same feelings for me.
— Trisha

Dear Trisha,
It is five years since he walked away and you are still pining for him. This guy did not deserve your love. He did not even have the decency to tell you the reason why he decided to call it quits. He jolly well owed you an answer. It appears that he just lost interest in you. Do not call him because if he rejects you again, it will spell agony for you all over again. Get going with your life. Time will heal all wounds. Remember this guy does not care for you, it is time you stopped even thinking about him. 

Diana will solve it!
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