'I'm cheating and I feel guilty too'

Jun 05, 2013, 00:03 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I'm 27 with an amazing girlfriend whom I know for about three years now. She's a lovely person and trusts me wholeheartedly.

However, I’ve taken advantage of her and went on to have flings with colleagues. Every time I do something like that I feel very morose but I don’t go back to normal and keep pushing my luck. My girl is unsuspecting of my cheating score. I want to be a reformed man but I don’t know how one is supposed to do that.
— Daaniyal

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Daaniyal,
You obviously don’t have enough respect for your girlfriend. Otherwise, you would not have cheated on her. You are one selfish guy who thinks the grass is greener on the other side. But have you ever given a thought to the fact that what if she was cheating on you? How would you have reacted? I am sure you would see red. So instead of feeling guilty about going out with other women, why not stop doing it?

Diana will solve it!
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