My boyfriend keeps talking about his ex-flame

Jan 21, 2013, 07:40 IST | Diana

I recently hooked up with this guy who is from our office. We are both in our early 30s

Dear Diana,
He’s a nice chap and has a good heart but something is terribly wrong with him. He keeps mentioning his ex. You can guess how irritating it can get but to top it all, he talks about how his ex was in and out of the bed! I can assume that he wants to have sex because that’s the obvious next step but I don’t understand the need of referring to his past to get what he wants in the present. This behaviour almost freaks me out.
— Yasia

Dear Yasia,
This guy is definitely a weirdo. You have to weigh the cons and pros of being in a relationship with him. I really feel he is not worthy. He still pines for his ex, so why did he break off? And considering that there is a new woman in his life, the ex should be a closed chapter in his life. Take a decision soon unless you want to be bombarded with his sexploits with his ex.

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