My ex has met with a road mishap...
Dear Diana, I broke up with my guy four years ago. It was a tough call but it was in the best interests of both of us.
After that we haven’t spoken to each other at all. A few days ago, I came to know that he was involved in a bike mishap and was badly hurt. He was in hospital for a week. I guess I still have not overcome him and feel like calling him up to check how he is. But at the same time I feel I should not as we had decided to be strangers for the rest of our lives.
I think you should not call on him. It will be awkward for both of you. You may be worried about him but if both of you had decided to be strangers, you have to stick to the decision. Also, I’m sure that when you meet him, you will develop strong feelings for him. This will cause you agony as you can’t have him. Also, what if he has moved on and has another woman in his life? Would you be able to handle that? Instead pray that he gets well soon and things get okay. If you really want to keep tabs on him, find out from common friends his condition but in a guarded way.