My girlfriend is extremely dominating...

May 04, 2012, 08:11 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I love my girlfriend a lot. We are going strong but when it comes to matters between the sheet, she is the one who is dominating

I totally hate this fact. She is far more sexually experienced than me and it shows. I don’t care about her past but it’s surely affecting our present. I’m having this complex where I wonder whether I’m just overreacting or feeling inferior with no fault of mine. Also, I don’t want to annul our relationship just because I’m the less experienced guy.

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Shubh,
You feel this way because you think it is always the man who has to take the lead and be in charge. But there is no such thing. You don’t care about your girl’s past, so just chill and enjoy the moments. There is no such thing as being inferior or superior — get that out of your head. There are many guys out there who love it when their woman takes charge. They love it when the woman controls them in bed! Imagine if your girlfriend was frigid... that would have been a bigger source of bother for you. 

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