'My guy thinks I am too young for him'

Jul 24, 2013, 23:48 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I'm 25 and my guy is 37. In spite of the age difference, we get along well. I want to be with him and he says he wants to be with me too.

We have also been balancing our personal and professional life well. But he often tells me that I’m too young for him. Do I work through all these issues or move on to avoid heart break?

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Tanvi,
Age, as they say, is a mere number. You can’t help who you fall in love with. But at the same time you have to watch out for the tell-tale signs. Your guy seems to be unpredictable. He says he has feelings for you and in the same breath says you are too young for him. This is a clear signal that he has a meandering mind. You seem devoted on making this relationship work while he harbours second thoughts about the age gap. If he brings it up often, you need to sit down and talk to him before you plan to take the relationship to the next level. This is a clear sign that he is not serious about you.

Diana will solve it!
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