My husband's ex is telling me strange things about him

Jun 05, 2012, 06:24 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I'm a 34-year-old housewife who got married to a divorcee two years ago. I recently bumped into his former wife who told me about his bedroom habits and how he had this fetish for handcuffing her to the bed.

I haven’t seen any such behavior from him yet but she said that their marriage ended because of his sexual quirkiness. I’m not sure whether she is telling me the truth. I thought of mentioning it to my hubby but then decided against it. Should I be worried about such claims from his ex-wife?

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Dear Nimu,
I find it strange that your hubby’s ex-wife is telling you intimate stuff as well as the reasons why the marriage broke off. You came into the picture only after she had moved on, and you don’t even know her. You have been married for two years and have not experienced any of the fetishes she has related to you. So it is best to ignore her and not tell your hubby the nonsense she has told you. This woman just wants to create mischief after realising that things are fine between your hubby and you. Just because she had problems with him does not mean everyone will also have issues with him. It is best to turn a deaf ear. When she realises you are not paying heed she will stop filling you in with her utter rubbish. 

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