My wife is an insecure psycho

Aug 16, 2012, 06:29 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I got married around a year ago. Soon after, I came to know that my wife is extremely suspicious and feels everyone is against her. Initially, she accused me of having an affair with a colleague.

She even came to my office one day and started abusing me in front of others. I eventually had to quit my job thanks to her drama. At my next job, she again started accusing me of getting close to a colleague. I can’t afford to quit this job just because she’s not comfortable with me staying late in office for different projects or for getting calls from female colleagues. I think she is an insecure psycho!
— Amroz

Illustration/ Satish Acharya

Dear Amroz,
Your wife certainly is an insecure psycho who needs to be given a piece of your mind. She belongs to those group of women who keep tabs on the movements of their husband. And if they are even spotted talking to any female, it spells an affair. I really pity your predicament. If you had not been married, I would have told you not to stick around with her. You need to tell her that you can’t be jumping jobs because she feels you are having an affair with a colleague. Your wife needs to see a psychiatrist immediately. She needs help because she is not normal. But such people are difficult to change. If you think this is ruining your life, you need to give a serious thought to going your separate way.  

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