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I have been in love with a girl I know for three years now. Neither is she my friend nor is she in touch with me. I met her in my dance classes. We have hardly spoken. I am crazy about her. She is very pretty and slim. I am among many guys who love her. She is already in a serious relationship with a guy since more than a year. She is from a rich background and so is her guy. I have been in love with her since Std 9 but have never approached her. All my friends say she is not a good girl, that her nature is bad, and that she had many relationships in her past. Even a few friends who know her well warned me not to fall for her. But I really like the way she is, the way she carries her self and the attitude for sure. I do have her numberu2026 can I call her? She knows me... I was a good dancer and she even she asked my help for her friends for an event and I was stupid to have said no. So that's all I can put up in words. I am in love.
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Peter P
Dear Peter,
What really matters now is getting to know her better and building a rapport. It all depends really on what kind of guys she likes. And besides, you have no business passing assinuations on her character on one hand, and professing love to her on another. It's one thing to admire and totally another to say you love her. Don't make it sound like yo're doing her a favour by being one of the many guys who are hopelessly in love with her.
Too naive to be girlfriend material (for my bro)?
Dear Diana,
My brother thinks that his girlfriend is too naive to be introduced to our parents just yet. She's very outgoing but also very outspoken and that sometimes, creates a problem as she says the firstthing that pops into her head without so much as a though. Sometimes it is hurtful, sometimes idiotic, but she's a very cool girl otherwise and all our friends are very fond of her. How do we 'improve' her before she meets our parents?
Nilesh
Dear Nilesh,
The first impression is usually the last one for most people. People make up their minds about those that are to become an everyday part of their lives, usually at their first meeting. And it takes much more than just a friendly nature to get past parents. Of course, this is just the question of introducing her as a girlfriend (and not a potential partner... not just as yet anyway). So chill.
I've shot down his plans of going down on me!
Dear Diana,
My boyfriend wants to perform oral sex on me, but I have firmly said no. Although he has said he won't expect sex in return (oral or otherwise) I am sure one thing will lead to another and I will end up doing something I might regret. We have not had sex yet and this would have been our first chance at exploring each other's bodies.
Nilesh
Dear Friend,
Unless you're comfortable with the sexual act, there's really no point going ahead with it, even if you're the one getting pleasured. It has to be something you enjoy rather than worry about too much. If you are afraid that you might end up having sex when in fact you aren't ready for it, it would be better to postpone the act itself to a later date.
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