I no longer find my husband physically attractive anymore
Dear Diana,
I no longer find my husband physically attractive anymore. I married him when I was 24, I am 40 years old. The last time we had sex, I hated every second of it. I have two children, and honestly feel I am now only with my husband for their sakes. I was once very happily married. My husband ruined everything by cheating. I discovered he has cheated many times, but always denied it.
I made the decision to stay with him rather than ruin my children's lives. If that is the wrong decision, then that is something I will have to deal with. My best friend/lover came into my life and changed everything. I have never felt love like it. But unfortunately, we both knew we could never be together and he has had to make the decision to end our friendship. I am left feeling totally heart broken. I have never set out to ruin anybody's marrage or life. Some-times, love takes over.
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
Is his infidelity the only reason why you no longer "find him attractive" or is that just a ruse to seek separation? His obvious denial has worsened matters. Moreover, I do feel staying back in the marriage is the wrong decision because you continue to make yourself miserable about it.
Moreover, your lover has ditched you at a time when you need him the most. I don't blame him. Most married men would rather stick with their wives than begin life anew with a lover. All said and done, though, there are some things you have to get over andu00a0 hope it all works out in the end.
How do you know when love is true?
Dear Diana,
How does you know when true love is true love? Or does it even exist?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
When you truly love someone, nothing else matters. Not their faults or their failings. You love them as they are for who they are for who they are. When someone truly loves you, their selfless love will be your reason for getting up to live another day knowing that they are loved.
Wanna touch her without being embarrassed
Dear Diana,
With my girlfriend, we talk, hold hands, sometimes hug, kiss but we've never done anything sexually. I know this sounds like I want to have sex with her but that's not the case. I'm talking about things like touching her backside while kissing and being able to touch each other without being embarrassed about it. We've been together three months. I'm scared she'd think all I want is to have sex with her. Am not interested in premarital sex, BTW. Should I just hold myself in? I'm 17, so is this normal?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
At 17, you're exploring your sexuality and that's a normal thing. One rarely knows what approach works from person to person. Intimacy means different things to different couplesu00a0-- some like to talk to each other for hours together, some love to snuggle and cuddle up to each other every chance they get, some simply love the touch of the other's body. Anything sexual that follows has to be with mutual consent. Should you tell her how you feel about this? I guess you should simply wait a bit and see how she reacts if you do touch her in places that could arouse her and take it from there. Maybe, she wants something different from this "relationship"?
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