My boyfriend is really sweet
Dear Diana,
My boyfriend is really sweet. It took him two months to muster the courage to kiss me. Also when we made Iove, it was beautiful, passionate and really tender. He was everything I could ask for. Now he has changed for the worse and has become distant and has started saying that I'm cheating on him (I'm not!). We make up, settle the argument and then he's back to the same stupidity.
He argues over stupid things and goes for days without calling me. And when he does, he starts behaving like he's checking up on me. I love him every much but he's changed. He says he hasn't but I know he has. I think he's a bit insecure. He's always been the shy type.
Name withheld
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Dear Friend,
Your instinct could be right. He might simply be insecure. But before making any accusation that he is cheating on you, sit him down and talk it out. Tell him to be upfront and also explain that you're not looking for a fight, but are keen on finding a way to help reassure him that you love him and only him. However, make a mention that you can not tolerate him throwing fits and accusations at youu00a0-- it does not help your self-esteem one bit when your own boyfriend feels like he cannot trust you when you have given him no reason to not trust you.
Oral sexu00a0= pregnancy?
Dear Diana,
I recently had oral sex with my boyfriend. Since then, however, I've been feeling strange. Could I be pregnant?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
Absolutely not. Oral sex cannot make you pregnant. "Feeling strange" is a pretty vague statement to sum up how you're feeling and I suggest you back that up with actual symptoms and visit a gynaec if you're that worried (to allay your fears).
I love him a lot even after breaking up with him
Dear Diana,
I met a guy. He was so sweet and nice... I liked him a lot. And then, he was never there. I used to get mad every time, and he'd call me and say he was sorry and promise he'd change, but he never did. I had to break up with him for the way he acts, and it was okay with him us being just friends.
I still love him a lot, and while I have to act like I'm just a friend, it's breaking up my heart every time I see him with another girl. I do miss him a lot. What should I do? Get over it? Will I ever? Is there anyway to help me get rid of that pain?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
You should've ended the relationship long before you did. It doesn't matter that you miss him now. Fact of the matter remains, he bailed out on you when you needed him the most. That isn't what friendsu00a0-- least of all, boyfriends -- do. I won't judge you for loving a guy like that completely.
Some of us are just wired that way. You still feel for him despite initiating the break-up. If it bothers you that much, get back with him and ready yourself for some more pain. If you have had enough, get back at him by moving on. Don't kill yourself chasing someone who doesn't really care as much.
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