I am afraid a guy will cheat me like my ex did

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Will porn help me control my sexual urges?

Dear Diana,
Thank you very much. I am a horny man but am controlling myself these days so as to maintain my health. But I can't sleep till late night. I control myself somehow but for how long will this continue? Give me an idea, should I see an adult film to relieve myself? I am 23 years old, am married but am away from my wife.u00a0
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Suresh Gupta

Dear Suresh,
Masturbation as a form of sexual release is widely accepted as a safe way to ease your horniness. Watching adult flicks will only help masturbate but might also put ideas into your head about what accepted sexual behaviour is. Whatever you do, don't believe everything you see in porn flicks.

She says she won't marry either of us

Dear Diana,
My best friend, Varun likes the same girl as me. She has more hair than the two of us combined (in every place imaginable, except facial hair, of course) and that is exactly what drives us crazy about her.u00a0 Moreover she's a good girl, the kind we can take home to our ammas and appas. At the same time, she's a tigress in bed (we share notes) and is one of a kind when getting us to put on condoms. Of course, she says she won't marry either of us because she just doesn't see the point. I don't understand cryptic clues...

MM

Dear Friend,
She's okay with being promiscuous. But takes an extra effort to be safe. That in my book, is the sign of a go-getter who knows exactly what she wants, knows where to get it, knows how to cross the boundaries and where to draw the lines. She'd definitely make a good catch for any guy smart enough to know how to woo her and has no qualms with her not being a virgin. Of course, this is an exceptional case. She doesn't see a future with either of you, simply because the three of you would share no chemistry beyond a point and it would all go downhill from there. Somewhere down the line, one of you would lose interest in love or lust.