I love her post break-up. Tell her again?

Diana will solve it!
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Dear Diana,
We are best friends. Since we became close, our friends would taunt us saying we make a good couple but we would ignore them. In between, we did have feelings but we soon broke up. Later, she found love with someone else. I am scared to say anything because she has a guy now. I am scared she might not want to be friends with me anymore.
Varun

Dear Varun,
You've been close once, what's stopping you from revealing your feelings to her again? I'm sure she'll give you a listening ear and another chance. But not as long as she's serious about this guy. She might not want to spoil things if she's got a good thing going with this guy.u00a0 Give her some time and then break the news to her. But take care not to hurt her again.

Can't live without her!

Dear Diana,
I am 21 years old. I am in love with a 22-year-old. I can't live without her. We've been going around for four years. I want to continue her presence in my life.
Ganesh

Dear Ganesh
I don't think there's an age difference problem here. You haven't mentioned if there's a caste/religion difference that could pose a problem. You've been together four years. Tell her that you'd like to marry her and settle down with her. What the hell is stopping you?

I'm wary of her guy friend

Dear Diana,
I am 21 years old. My girlfriend is 19 years old. We're in the same college but we study for different courses. She spends a lot of time in the company of her classmates. Especially with this one guy. He seems nice enough. But he's a guy nevertheless. I can't trust him!
Paritosh

Dear Paritosh,
Trust your girlfriend. She's probably comfortable being in the company of this guy. And trusts herself around him as well as this guy's intentions. Don't read too much into this. Give her a chance to prove you wrong. I am sure she will!