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I want to wait till I'm ready, they want us wed NOW!

Updated on: 29 July,2009 10:29 AM IST  | 
Diana |

am 24. I live and work in Mumbai. My girlfriend and I have been together three years...

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I want to wait till I'm ready, they want us wed NOW!

Dear Diana,
I am 24. I live and work in Mumbai. My girlfriend and I have been together three years. She is a bit orthodox as

her parents have been very strict and uptight about her upbringing. I, on the other hand, am a laidback, happy-go-lucky person who has had wonderful, understanding, not-so-stuck-up parents. We have talked about marriage. But while I'd rather wait a year or two before tying the knot, they want her to get wed ASAP. They 'approve of' me but aren't willing to let her wait. I've even offered to get engaged to allay their fears but to no avail. I am at my wit's end. Any suggestions?



Shona

Dear Shona,
Then tell him that. Tell him everything you've been bottling up inside. If you want to see that passion again, you have to demand to see it. He isn't going to dream up that you have certain expectations. Guys are simply not built that way. While ideal guys are perceptive, the general majority isn't. Now that he has you, he feels his job of wooing you is done and that the 'show' he put up can now be stopped. You have to tell him that it is a lifelong commitment if heu00a0 wants to be with you. As simple as that!

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