Is it right for me to take the initiative all the time?

I work in a reputed MNC. Two months back, I proposed to a friend of mine who also works in the same company.

Is it right for me to take the initiative all the time?

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Is it right for me to take the initiative all the time?

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Is it right for me to take the initiative all the time?

Dear Diana,

I work in a reputed MNC. Two months back, I proposed to a friend of mine who also works in the same company. She rejected it citing family pressures. When my friend messaged her asking her the reason for her rejection, she told him that it was because the two us knew nothing about each other. I'm troubledu2026 why did she not tell me this? Why did she lie to me? Now, when I work abroad, it is only I who takes the initiative to chat up. She never does. She said she knows I love her. Is she playing with my feelings? Is it right for me to take the initiative every time?