I am 24 and have been seeing a gorgeous girl for around eight months now...
It's a one-night stand. How could it hurt?
Dear Diana,
I am 24 and have been seeing a gorgeous girl for around eight months now. No complaints there. She's everything a guy looks for in a girl and until recently, I thought so too. Until I met this other girl. She's nothing like my girlfriend. She's dark (my GF's fair like a phirang), she's funny as hell (my GF's sense of humour has its limits) and she's got the coolest attitude when it comes to relationships (my girlfriend is a bit orthodox). This other girl wants to have a fling with me; nothing permanent. My girlfriend is very possessive and doesn't take too kindly to me ogling at other girls. I wonder how she'd react if she found out if I were to actually take this girl up on her offer.
Lucky
Dear Lucky,
Given the circumstances, I think you should play it safe and pass up on the offer. Agreed, the seduction and the temptress herself is too difficult to let go of, you have to realise that if this affair (were it to actually happen) ever came to light, it would destroy whatever little trust your 'possessive' girlfriend has in you. This new girl might be everything your girlfriend isn't. But is the adventure worth the price you'll be expected to pay? Can you live down having cheated on someone who is committed to you over someone who just wants you for a trophy, an experience?
Why do girls avoid me?
Dear Diana,
I don't understand why girls avoid me. I am good-looking, can speak well and even hold a good job and can show her a good time. Everything a girl looks for in a guy, right? Or am I missing something?
Kalpesh
Dear Kalpesh,
If that was all there was to it, life would be so much simpler, no? But it isn't, so obviously, there's a lot more a girl looks for in a guy than your limited periphery allows. Ask a close friend for his/her opinion; maybe it could shed some light on the matter.
Will I be able to help my friends out?
Dear Diana,
Of the 15 friends I have, I am close to only two. One of them is a guy and the other isu00a0 my cousin sister (she is an only child). We hang out together often and it was, but natural that in time, the two of them would begin to enjoy each other's company more. While he's a nice enough guy, he's not as rich as we are and I'm afraid her parents might pose a problem if they came to know. I'm happy that they want to be together but am worried if I will be able to convince her parents should they ask me to.
Name withheld on request
Dear Friend,
A good, true friend would never back out when needed. Think about it. Should they ever need your help, offer it without condition ordon't offer it at all. If you are convinced about his good intentions, I don't think him being a little poorer than you are shouldn't really be a problem. And besides, it's too early to say anything. They're probably just starting to get to know each other. Don't worry about them getting married or getting serious about each other just yet.
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