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Dear Diana,
We were in a relationship for the last seven years. It was all going well and we even talked of getting married one day.
But she broke up with me out of the blue without giving a reason. I kept crying day and night begging to her to come back but she never did. One day, I learned that she's now with her best friend, a guy I trusted completely.
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Even so, I kept doing things for her just to make her realise how much I loved her. Then I came to know they had been dating for four months. 
After all this, she wants me to be there for her as her friend, tells me tat she made the biggest mistake of her life leaving me and admits no-one will keep her as happy as I can, but at the end of the day, doesn't wants to come back because she doesn't "feel" for me "that way" anymore.
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I don't know what to do. I still love her and am waiting for her to return. Do you think she will regret the choices she made? Do you think she'll come back?
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Dear Friend,
If she had to come back, she would have, a long time ago. I am sure the relationship ended long before you realised that it was.
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The lack of a reason for the break-up ensured that you had no closure on the subject and kept hoping against hope that she'd return to you.
Face it! She cheated on you and did not have the decency to tell you that it was over.
She's keeping you on a string hooked and reeling you in, whenever she feels like. I don't think it's fair to you but you can continue to let things be the way they are or effect change in your life by pushing her away.
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I understand throwing away five years of memories is difficult but you have to understand that it was a bad emotional investment.
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If she doesn't feel for you "that way" anymore, it's best you cut your losses and moved on.
No, I don't think she will regret the choices she made. No, I don't think she'll come back to you. And I'm just being practical here.
Just because I'm poor...
Dear Diana,
I am a 25-year-old guy and am in love with a 16-year-old girl. We're in love and can't live without each other. Her family is objecting, however, because I'm poor. What should I do?
Samuel
Dear Samuel,
I think their objections have little to do with your financial condition and more to do with your age. Your girlfriend's a minor and her family is right to be worried. I understand your feelings may be genuine but you have to understand that they are only concerned for her.
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