She's two-timing me. Should I let go?

Dear Diana,
I am a 24-year-old going around with a girl who is 19. I don't trust my girl. I feel she is two-timing me. She carries two cell phones and speaks to one person till midnight everyday. I have caught her red-handed many a time. We share an intimate relationship but I can't trust her. She meets that guy on Sundays and when I question she tells me that he is her cousin. She has a relationship with other two guys I know. We belong to different religions But she says she loves me and not my religion. I am fed-up of her. What do I do?

Name withheld
Dear Friend,
girl since you obviously don't trust her. Where there is no trust, there is no relationship. You seem to know that she is seeing other guys, you've also caught her red-handed many times, so what are you waiting around for? Further humiliation? It's almost like you know what you have to do, but you want someone to tell you that it's okay to do it. So here is the verdict: it's time to end this relationship. Don't fall for the emotional blackmail that is sure to follow. Once you've decided that you are fed up and you want out, don't change your decision. She might offer you explanations. Hear her out and tell her that it won't work anymore because you don't trust her. Wish her all the best in life and move on with yours. Some relationships are just not meant to be.



He judged me on my looks
Dear Diana,
I met this guy online. We exchanged numbers and constantly spoke over the phone. We shared a great friendship until one day he asked for my snap and after looking at it, he stopped calling. I am good-looking but I think that on listening to my voice, he assumed I was very beautiful. Whenever I call, he talks nicely and also replies to my SMSes. But I think his pre-conceived notions about my looks were shattered and thus he lost interest in me. What should I do?

Name withheld
Dear Friend,
Only a very shallow person would judge a person by looks. I'd like a friend who likes me for who I am, not what I look like. For a friendship to survive, both persons must want it. If you are the only one calling him all the time, where is his interest in it? I don't think it was also very wise of you to share a photograph with someone you don't know. Have you seen his photograph? How do you know anything he is saying is true? I don't think this guy can be trusted. No point in talking to him.

They want me to get married ASAP!
Dear Diana,
I am a 28-year-old woman. I come from a
happy family. I am content with my job. The only problem is that I don't want to get married. However, my parents believe that in the latter years of life, everyone needs a partner. They don't want me to be lonely and therefore often urge me to get married. Also, I am a sociable kind of person so they feel that I will surely get great proposals. Till now, they have been accommodating. But now they are pushing me to get married. They are willing to settle for my choice too. Should I leave my beliefs for their sake?